Family Mediation Week 2026
Family Mediation Week 2026, which is taking place from 26–30 January 2026, provides an important opportunity to highlight how mediation supports couples and families going through separation or divorce. The annual campaign, organised by the Family Mediation Council (FMC), aims to raise awareness of family mediation’s role in helping couples stay in control of their separation and make informed decisions together. Mediation can also help to create a more positive foundation for a family’s future.
In follow-up to our previous article, What is Family Mediation? – A Guide for Separating Couples, and to mark Family Mediation Week 2026, our experienced family law team in Blackheath shares some further guidance on getting the most from the mediation process.
- Believe in the process.
Opting for mediation rather than litigation offers several advantages. Fighting an ex-partner in court is stressful for everyone concerned and can be time-consuming, traumatic and expensive.
The collaborative approach taken in mediation encourages parties to work together. However, it only works if everyone involved commits to the process.
It takes most couples two to four mediation sessions to agree on arrangements for their children and an average of five sessions to reach an agreement about their finances. Even if the first session is difficult, keep an open mind and stick with it.
- Be respectful.
Having conversations with an ex-partner is often difficult, especially if the relationship ended badly. However, even if you are no longer on friendly terms, being dismissive or defensive is not conducive to open discussion that can result in agreement.
Language matters. Be open and considerate in how you communicate and try to leave any residual issues you might have at the door.
- Be cooperative.
The family mediation process allows couples to decide on how best to do things, based on what works for them. This is a key benefit of mediation in family law disputes, allowing separating couples to retain control over the decision-making process rather than surrendering it to the courts.
Although this is a positive aspect of the procedure, family mediation is only effective if couples are willing to cooperate and to compromise. Listen to the points made by your ex-partner, try to understand things from their perspective, and be prepared to be flexible in your response.
- Choose the right mediator.
Mediators come from diverse backgrounds and experiences, and each will have a different style and area of expertise. When choosing a mediator, it helps to consider their background, experience and specialisms, to ensure you get the right fit.
Many mediators meet clients online, but if you prefer face-to-face sessions, you should also bear in mind practical considerations like where they are based.
Click here to search the FMC’s Register to find a family mediator who practises near you.
- Focus on the future.
Moving on after a relationship breakdown can be difficult. However, it is important not to dwell on the past and instead focus on moving forward.
Try to go into each mediation session focusing on what you want to get out of it. Arrangements for your family that are agreed through mediation will provide a firm foundation for your future.
Family Law Solicitors Blackheath
Mediation can help separating couples resolve many issues arising out of their break-up and is one of the most effective ways to reach an agreement.
At Beverley Morris & Co., we can advise on all family law matters, including divorce, children, and financial disputes, helping couples decide on the best way to proceed.
We understand the sensitivity of family law matters and offer a personal and practical approach. Our experienced family law solicitors will ensure that you receive caring, confidential advice, tailored to your unique legal matter.
Our Head of Family Law is Saba Ansari, a highly experienced Family Law Solicitor who has received many five-star reviews from her clients. She specialises in all aspects of matrimonial matters, including divorce, financial remedies, private law children cases, domestic abuse, unmarried couples, and all types of family law agreements. She is extremely knowledgeable and robust, but at the same time she is caring and sympathetic, fully understanding the challenges that face her clients upon a relationship breakdown. Saba offers clear advice and total transparency as regards the costs involved in the legal process.
For more information, or to speak to one of the team, call 020 8852 4433 or email enquiries@beverleymorris.co.uk.
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Read some of our previous blogs for related information:
Frequently Asked Questions About Parental Responsibility
How a Solicitor Helps with Divorce